Grandmother 96 Birthday Celebration

Too long did not blog about my daily life and things happen around. I think i should re-arrange my time again to blog it out all starting today.

This post mainly talk about my grandmum birthday celebration, she still very strong and healthy at all time, cause Made In China hehe!! Even myself cant compare with her, she eat alots, whatever food, cold, hot she also can eat.

This call blessed from our LORD, but she still blame why God want her to stay so long in this world to suffer so many trouble in her daily life. Why she said so, becoz she always arguing and quarrel with my dad at home when they are too free. This call nothing to do haha!!

Some old folks really hard to serve and what you do, they always will nagging around. I'm actually don't like. But i can't change the reality cause she is my Grandmum :)

On this special day of her, my mum cook "mee suan" + eggs, chinese tradition, mean after eat will be long age. we did not forget to buy her a cake to blow as well:)

Anyhow, we still hope she stay healthy and be good all the times!!

Happy 96th Birthday!!

My Little Star With New Hair Style

She is growing up very fast.. now talk and look also become like adult..

Few days back her mum bring her to have hair cut, i got her mms.. i was OMG why look so mature hehe!! i call her auntie once i saw her.. she like very happy people call her auntie:p

Very cute girl and consider naughty as well..

Like to follow me in and out when i go back to mum house. Children always make us happy and funs sometime.

I manage to capture few shots for her after changing hair style :)

Yian Belated Birthday Celebration @ Bubba Gump

Not sure how many years we did not have chance to celebrate for her... YES! now is the chance to enjoy together.

Our plan go smooth and success as wat we think, hehe!! hope Yian u dont mind... next time u can do it the same way to anyone of us kekeke!! the nearest birthday girl is........??....!!!! I had told u :p

Anywhere wish u here a happy and successful future and cheer up!! abit drunk after the magarita! :p

Prayer

Dear Lord,

You know my friend so much better then i do, You know her sickness and the burden she carries.You also know her heart. LORD, i ask You to be with her now, working in her life. Let your will be done in her's life. If there is a sin that needs to be confessed and forgiven, Lord, please help her to see her need and confess.

Lord, i pray for her because your word says I should pray for her healing. I believe you hear this earnest prayer from my heart and that it is powerful because of your promise. You never leave us alone.

i have faith in you to heal my friend, but i also trust in the plan you have for her life. Lord, i dont always understand yours ways, and why she has to suffer, but trust you, i ask that you look with mercy and grace toward her.Nourish her spirit and soul in this time of suffering and comfort her with your presence. let her know you are there with her through this difficulty. And may you be glorified in her life and also in mine.

In the name of Jesus I pray AMEN

Fix Problem, Not Blame

“A gentle response defuses anger, but a sharp tongue kindles a temper-fire” (Proverbs 15:1 Msg).

The fifth biblical step toward restoring a relationship is to attack the problem, not the person. You cannot fix the problem if you're consumed with fixing the blame. You must choose between the two. The Bible says, "A gentle response defuses anger, but a sharp tongue kindles a temper-fire" (Prov. 15:1 Msg).

You will never get your point across by being cross, so choose your words wisely. A soft answer is always better than a sarcastic one.

In resolving conflict, how you say it is as important as what you say. If you say it offensively, it will be received defensively. God tells us, "A wise, mature person is known for his understanding. The more pleasant his words, the more persuasive he is" (Prov. 16:21 TEV).

Nagging never works. You are never persuasive when you're abrasive.

During the Cold War, both sides agreed that some weapons were so destructive they should never be used. For the sake of fellowship, you must destroy your arsenal of relational nuclear weapons, including condemning, belittling, comparing, labeling, insulting, condescending, and being sarcastic.

Paul sums it up this way: "Do not use harmful words, but only helpful words, the kind that build up and provide what is needed, so that what you say will do good to those who hear you" (Eph. 4:29 TEV).